Elissa Sussman is the author of the bestselling, TikTok sensation, FUNNY YOU SHOULD ASK, ONCE MORE WITH FEELING, and the recently released TOTALLY AND COMPLETELY FINE

She’s the host of the R-rated podcast, BUT HOW’S THE SEX, which is dedicated to discussing the sex lives of fictional characters. In addition to her current work, she’s also the author of three YA novels, DRAWN THAT WAY, STRAY, and BURN.
In a previous life, Elissa managed animators and organized spreadsheets at some of the best animation studios in the world, including Nickelodeon, Disney, Dreamworks, and Sony Imageworks. You can see her name in the credits of THE CROODS, HOTEL TRANSYLVANIA, THE PRINCESS AND THE FROG and TANGLED.
She received her BA from Sarah Lawrence College and her MFA from Pacific University. She lives in Los Angeles with her family and many, many pets.
The Frequently Asked Question
How Do You Pronounce Your Name?
Like Melissa but without the M, or Alyssa, like Alyssa Milano.
Suss-man. As in, to suss someone out. A man.